Find the Spark of Lasting Love


Gottman Weekend Couples Workshop
Created by drs. john and julie gottman
Presented By: Richard B. Boswell, LCSW & Christianne Judy, LCSW

Discover the path to an extraordinary relationship with The Art and Science of Love Couples Workshop in St. Louis, Missouri. Based on the groundbreaking research and expertise of renowned relationship experts, Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

  • April 26th - 27th, 2025
  • October 4th - 5th 2025

$750 per Couple (see details below)

Couples Workshop Overview

These comprehensive, science-based couple and marriage workshops & retreats are appropriate for premarital, engaged, married, cohabiting, gay, straight, happy or struggling couples. All of the ideas presented to you will be grounded in sound and extensive research brought to you from the Gottman Relationship Institute. You will learn what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable.

The Gottman Couples Workshop Program The Art & Science of Love Couples Workshop is based on the work of John Gottman, Ph.D. Dr. Gottman has learned what really makes relationships work by studying and following over 3,000 couples in over 40 years of research. This workshop is designed to teach you exactly what successful couples do to foster romance and harmony in their relationships. Originally designed more than 25 years ago, the workshop is regularly updated as new research becomes available. Come learn what thousands of couples already have!

During the first day, you will learn how to build fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship. On the second day, you’ll work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills. Couples work privately on exercises designed to address the challenges in real- life relationships. Certified Gottman therapists are available to support couples one-on-one with exercises. While the nature of this workshop is psycho-educational, all information gathered from couples will be kept absolutely confidential. There is no group work or public disclosure.

Your presenters are Richard Boswell, LCSW and Christianne Judy, LCSW, Certified Gottman Therapists and Couples Workshop Leaders directly trained by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Richard and Christianne have over 55 years combined counseling experience treating couples and went through extensive training at the Gottman Institute in Seattle, Washington.

What’s Included in the $750.00:

  • Day 1 & 2 of the Art and Science of Love Workshop
  • The Gottman Institute Couples Workshop kit including all teaching materials for you to keep and use at home
  • The Gottman Institute Couples Workbook, one for each member
  • A solid grounding in Gottman’s research
  • A solid understanding of the Sound Relationship House Theory and how to make it  work in your relationship
  • Many tools to rekindle and/or deepen your Friendship
  • Many tool to help you manage differences and conflict to grow closer
  • Instruction, Demonstration and Practice (with your partner) using  14 essential relationship skills
  • Coaching for all tools and skills
  • Morning and afternoon snacks
  • A safe, welcoming environment with other couples who are doing their work too!

Feeling emotionally empty in your relationship?

Looking to strengthen your bond?

Richard B. Boswell, LCSW

Transform Your Relationship

Led by experienced facilitators Richard Boswell, LCSW, and Christianne Judy, LCSW, this transformative workshop invites you and your partner to embark on a journey that can deepen your connection, reignite the passion, and strengthen the foundation of your love.

Christianne Judy, LCSW

Workshop Topics

The Five Basic Questions
  • How is your marriage/relationship doing?
  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?
  • If your relationship is in trouble, how can you turn it around?
  • If your relationship is doing well, how can you ensure that it will continue to grow?
  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?
  • Assessing Your Relationship
  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your relationship / marriage.
  • Identify your relationship's specific strengths and how to build on these.
  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may impede conflict resolution.
  • Learn the small, easy steps that increase romance in your relationship.
  • Building a "Sound Relationship House"
  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for intimacy.
  • Use the Fondness and Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another.
  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress.
  • Who Should Attend?

    Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help. The workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage and/or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one.

    The workshop is not for couples in acute crisis, such as a recently discovered affair, where someone is actively suicidal, or where domestic violence or substance abuse is present. If any of these fit your situation, please seek out professional help. The Art and Science of Love Couples Workshop may be helpful after these situations have improved. 

    WHAT TO EXPECT

    Expert Guidance from Seasoned Facilitators

    Richard and Christianne, your skilled facilitators, are dedicated to supporting couples on their journey toward a more fulfilling partnership. Using their extensive training, they will guide you through interactive exercises, discussions, and demonstrations that will deepen your understanding of each other, enhance communication, and teach you to manage conflicts with compassion.

    Unveiling the Secrets of Lasting Love

    You will gain exclusive access to the scientific principles and insights that have revolutionized relationships worldwide. Gottman’s research forms the cornerstone of this workshop, offering you an evidence-based roadmap to navigate the complexities of love and create lasting happiness together.

    Proven Tools and Techniques

    Prepare to be equipped with an array of practical tools and techniques carefully curated to strengthen your bond. From effective communication strategies to conflict resolution skills, intimacy-building exercises to rekindling passion, you'll learn how to foster a relationship that thrives on trust, emotional intimacy, and mutual respect.

    A Safe and Supportive Environment

    The environment is relaxed and welcoming. All couples are there for the same reason, to help their relationships grow. This open, safe environment is supportive of the work you are doing with your partner. In this workshop we do not ask you to share your relationship story with the group. All the work you do is with your partner.

    Location and Time

    The Center of Clayton

    50 Gay Avenue

    Clayton, MO 63105

    Registration Check-in: Saturday 8:00 - 8:30am

    Saturday & Sunday @ 8:30am - 5:00pm

    Long-Term Benefits for Your Relationship

    The investment you make in The Art and Science of Love Couples Workshop is an investment in the future of your relationship. By applying the insights gained and incorporating the tools provided, you'll lay the foundation for a lifetime of love, fulfillment, and mutual happiness. Experience the joy of a relationship that grows stronger over time and flourishes with shared meaning and purpose.

    Rekindle Emotional Intimacy

    Don't let the opportunity slip away! Reserve your spot at The Art and Science of Love Couples Workshop today. Limited availability for this life-changing event at $750 per couple. Embark on a transformative journey that will elevate your relationship to new heights. Take the first step towards a future filled with love, connection, and shared joy!